I have to be honest and say that in my 22 years (since I was eight--we won't count before that) I've never had an issue with stealing--ever. It just wasn't right. You just didn't do it. It was never okay to steal on purpose or on accident.
Today I had a moment where the urge to steal could have really taken over rather quickly. I walked out of a store with an empty cart through the "garden center" passing a store clerk
who didn't check my receipt. As I was putting my purse and Robyn in the car I noticed a package of
Huggies Little Swim Diapers in my cart. How did they get there? Did I put those there? Maybe I did put them in but later changed my mind and thought I had put them back on the shelf. Did I unconsciously put them back in my cart? Did Robyn put them there? A whole list of scenarios were running around in my head. Regardless of how they got there I knew I didn't pay for them. I actually didn't buy anything in the store! Oh my--did I just steal something?
I think everyone has that moment where they say, "I could take this and no one would ever know." The rationalizing...after all it was actually something on clearance that I could really use.
Are you kidding me?! It took me less than a minute to turn around and hand the item to the clerk by the door. She promptly said that she wondered about that when I walked out but just figured "it was nothing". She was absolutely astonished and overly appreciated my honesty. I guess she doesn't run into such honest people on a regular basis...that's too bad.
This incident made my day. I'm glad to know that even in the most innocent of circumstances, I had the power to be totally honest with myself and those around me. I absolutely believe that but it's good to be tested from time to time.